I promised, via Twitter today, that I would talk about something happy for a change such as hot fudge, so here it is! There is an ice cream flavor, I can’t remember the name or maybe I am inventing it as I write but the base flavor is creamy vanilla, there are ribbons of caramel and dark fudge running through it. Those ribbons of flavor are thick and rich and make the vanilla special by just being in it. I think that life is like that particular ice cream flavor. We have an every day routine of coming and going and doing and undoing that comes to be simply vanilla, nothing outstanding, smooth but bland. Then there are times that a great love will come along, we will call that the band of dark chocolate fudge, so good and so sweet but almost bitter it is so dark. Other flavors represent marriage, (sprinkles), or children, (bits of marshmallow), relatives, (nuts)…death which would be that bitter piece of nut that sometimes finds it’s way into butter pecan ice cream, I know you have found one…makes your mouth pucker and you have to spit it out! But without all the things that happen, our life, like the vanilla ice cream, would remain bland. Do you quit buying Butter Pecan because of the rancid nut you found in it? No, and with life the same, you keep experiencing all of it, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I think it is hard to find the perfect blend in a person with whom you want to share the rest of your life. So far, for me, Jesus Christ remains my faithful husband and, even though my eyes have roamed at times, I remain faithful to Him and He loves me…just the way I am, warts and all. We have the perfect example of how love should be that includes all the flavors and nuts and whipped cream of the sundae, it is 1 Corinthians 13 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing. If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled. When I was an infant at my mother’s breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good. We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then; see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us! But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love. I have learned that I can love someone that I don’t like very much; it’s the way God loves the sinner but hates the sin! I love all flavors of ice cream but I do have favorites, just like I have favorite people, I am getting very fond of hearing from you via email! So when you have your next big get-together, love that unlovable family member and enjoy all the flavors of your life, the best flavor of all is love, love for God, our fellow man and our own self! Let’s go eat some hot fudge!
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Thank you for stopping by for a visit! If you read my thoughts you will see that I am sometimes serious, at other times sappy or funny, occasionally I am sad and sentimental, but I am always sincere! I am a single mother who raised two children, born ten years apart and different sexes so first it was bows and dolls, pretty dresses and boys! When my son was born it was rough and tumble games, baseball, soccer, wrestling and girls! I am known for my "smile" and for my default answer to any situation, "no problem", which was something I didn't realize I did until it was pointed out to me! I am a moon watcher and a star gazer. I am astounded and feel so small knowing that every creature that has ever walked the face of this earth has gazed upon that same beautiful orb that my eyes can behold on any night when the earth is not wearing her cloak of clouds. My parents have made me the person that I am. Their love, veracity in all areas of life, humor and passion for their work and each other have given me hope that my life can actually be a happy one! Chances are if you are reading this you already know all this but again, I appreciate your stopping by! While you're here hit the "Like" button for me and thanks for checking in! View all posts by harolene