No Discouragement Zone

OK so this one stays up for 15 minutes!_ppThere are times, probably on a daily basis that I feel overwhelmed, so many things to do and how to fit it all in a 24-hour period. There are things that seem too big for me to do by myself, but I don’t give up. I encourage you to never give up and to never be the source of discouragement for anyone who is trying to do his or her best. This week someone, in talking of a young person, said, “they think they have solved the world’s problems”. This young person is in the process of discovering their spiritual side, along with trying to understand Bible prophecies, and has decided they really do know how “it’s all going to end”. My thought is that I hope they never realize the truth, which is that they still have a lot to learn, before they mature enough to understand it on their own. I think that’s when we start dying, we think we know it all, find out we don’t, and lose hope, it happens to us all.

Don’t worry, this person had no intention of dispelling the young person’s thoughts of conquering the present world and world to come, it was just an observation. I thought of a couple of instances, both positive and negative, things that really may have been determining factors in the way my life has turned out, to this moment.

I was trusted with responsibilities beyond my years and I really tried to earn the trust and it worked! I did a good job of taking care of the home while my parents were building a church. I learned how to clean; watch my two younger siblings and (best of all), I learned how to cook! I received all the praise I needed to make me proud and want to continue. I choose not to dwell on the negatives at this writing, but I was dealt a few devastating blows that could have flattened me. What I had in my favor was that my parents were always there for me to confide in, to listen to me gripe and complain, without putting me down for it. They were willing to share with me all the times they had faced bad things and how they had survived to live, and fight a different battle, one more day. More than anything else though, was the faith that had been built into me from early on, to know that God cared, that He gave me strength and His angels were always there to guard and keep me. My “go-to” scripture was always Philippians 4:13 Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.

I feel that my role in life is to pay it forward by helping others the way I have been helped, to give encouragement to the discouraged, hope to the hopeless, strength to the weak. Can I do that? No, not on my own, it goes back to “I can do all things through Christ, which strengthens me”, I can and so can you! When you want to criticize a young person or someone young in the faith, remember all the crazy thoughts you had when you were in their shoes. The old song by Joe South “If you could be me and I could be you for just one hour if we could find a way to get inside each other’s minds, if you could see you through my eyes instead of your ego I believe that you would be surprised to see that you’d been blind. Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes, and before you abuse, criticize and accuse, Walk a mile in my shoes.” A word to the wise!

Though we are works in progress now, we have hope knowing that God will complete the work He is doing in us. Now, what can you do to help someone else? Luke 6:38 “Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.” Give help to someone else and at the end of the day you’ll have a sense of satisfaction of a job well done.

Thank YOU for stopping by, help me, by leaving a comment! Be blessed and bless someone else!

One Reply to “No Discouragement Zone”

  1. One of the real joys I get in life is to have the opportunity to work with young people & be there when what you are saying to them reaches their understanding. That moment when their eyes light up & that big smile appears on their face is worth all the time & effort I have put in to the project. Some times it seems that moment will never come but it does & the joy it brings is awesome. I was a Junior Leader at the YMCA when I was 11 years old. My size & leadership abilities made it possible for me to be the youngest one at that time. It was real joy & I felt so proud of myself. I worked under a Senior Leader(paid) & he really liked me. He worked with me, gave me a lot of help & trusted me to do the job. I learned time management, patience, listening skills, and the ability to pull each boy into what we were doing so they felt a vital part of what we were doing. I did that till I was 16 & became a Senior Leader over the Crafts department. All those skills learned have been a blessing in later life. Lynne has learned to wait on me as ever so often I see someone having a problem & I will stop & see if I can help them in any way. Somebody helped me & I feel that for everyone that did I need to help at least 10 people to repay my debt. A kind word & a big smile always opens the door for you, what you do from there is up to you & your faith. God bless.

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