If I can help somebody…

There are times on a daily basis that I feel overwhelmed, so many things to do and trying to fit it all into a 24-hour period. There are things that seem too big for me to do by myself, but I don’t give up. More than anything else I want to encourage you to never give up and to never be the source of discouragement for anyone who is trying to do his or her best. In talking of a young person, I heard someone say, “They think they have solved the world’s problems”. Well this young person is in the process of discovering their spiritual side along with trying to understand Bible prophecies, and has decided they really do know how “it’s all going to end” and I hope they don’t realize the truth, which is that they still have a lot to learn, before they mature enough to understand it on their own. I believe that is when we start the process of dying, when we think we know it all and find out that we don’t and lose hope, it happens to us all.

I thought of a couple of instances, both positive and negative that were determining factors in the way my life has turned out. I was trusted with responsibilities beyond my years and I really tried to earn the trust and it worked! I did a good job of taking care of the home while my parents were building a church. I learned how to clean; watch my two younger siblings and best of all I learned how to cook! I received all the praise I needed to make me proud and want to continue. I choose not to dwell on the negatives at this writing, but I was dealt a few devastating blows that could have flattened me. What I had in my favor was that my parents were always there for me to confide in, to listen to me gripe and complain without putting me down for it. They were willing to share with me all the times they had faced bad things and how they had survived to live and fight a different battle, one more day. More than anything else though, was the faith that had been built into me from early on, to know that God cared, that He gave me strength and His angels were always there to guard and keep me. My “go-to” scripture was always Philippians 4:13 Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.

I feel that my role in life is to pay it forward by helping others the way I have been helped, to give encouragement to the discouraged, hope to the hopeless, strength to the weak. Can I do that? No, not on my own, it goes back to “I can do all things through Christ, which strengthens me”, I can and so can you!

When you want to criticize a young person remember all the crazy thoughts you had when you were in their shoes. The old song by Joe South “If you could be me and I could be you for just one hour if we could find a way to get inside each other’s minds, if you could see you through my eyes instead of your ego I believe that you would be surprised to see that you’d been blind. Walk a mile in my shoes, walk a mile in my shoes, and before you abuse, criticize and accuse, Walk a mile in my shoes.”

Though we are works in progress now, we have hope knowing that God will complete the work He is doing in us. Now, what can you do to help someone else? Luke 6:38 “Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.” Give help to someone else and at the end of the day you’ll have a sense of satisfaction of a job well done.

 

About harolene

Thank you for stopping by for a visit! If you read my thoughts you will see that I am sometimes serious, at other times sappy or funny, occasionally I am sad and sentimental, but I am always sincere! I am a single mother who raised two children, born ten years apart and different sexes so first it was bows and dolls, pretty dresses and boys! When my son was born it was rough and tumble games, baseball, soccer, wrestling and girls! I am known for my "smile" and for my default answer to any situation, "no problem", which was something I didn't realize I did until it was pointed out to me! I am a moon watcher and a star gazer. I am astounded and feel so small knowing that every creature that has ever walked the face of this earth has gazed upon that same beautiful orb that my eyes can behold on any night when the earth is not wearing her cloak of clouds. My parents have made me the person that I am. Their love, veracity in all areas of life, humor and passion for their work and each other have given me hope that my life can actually be a happy one! Chances are if you are reading this you already know all this but again, I appreciate your stopping by! While you're here hit the "Like" button for me and thanks for checking in!
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One Response to If I can help somebody…

  1. Patricia Bowen says:

    Well said Pastor Harolene! You have been a source of strength to thousands . Keep up the good works LOVE

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