Separation anxiety you say?

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I have put “separation anxiety” in every context I can, thought about scriptures that would apply to that, and then Googled it. 

Basically, it is a fear of being separated from ones that you love by distance, illness, or death… and that is just a thumbnail of all I have read about it. 

Then I decided to quit with the exploration and opened my Bible to find one of my comfort scriptures. 

What did I see? I’ll tell you in a minute… but first…

Moses was raised in the house of the Pharaoh as a son, but when events revealed his true heritage and he ended up being sent into a far country, alone, I’m sure he felt very separated from all he had known. God anointed him and gave him a wife in that desert, and he led his people out of Egypt to the promised land. 

When Joseph was thrown into a pit and sold as a slave, I’m sure that as he walked off into the desert he must have looked back at his betraying brothers and felt a great separation from his beloved father, Jacob. Years later he became their savior by saving them from starvation. 

I could go on and on with Bible stories, but I am more interested in what you are feeling. 

I have felt separation from loved friends, because being raised in the home of a minister you are moved from church to church in different cities and away from people that you loved and worked with in the church, then there are others that left us and went to other places, and even my own family that became estranged for reasons beyond my control, and finally estrangement from parts of my ministry that I loved. 

It is the feeling of separation and even worse, rejection. 

Maybe as you are reading this you are looking for help from some source outside of yourself. Think of the disciples separating themselves from Jesus in the Garden as the soldiers came to arrest Him. They loved Him but were afraid to be identified with Him out of fear for their lives. 

The greatest separation of all from the beginning of time until now would have to be the separation that Jesus felt as He hung on the cross bearing our sins… He cried out: Matthew 15:34 At three o’clock, Jesus groaned out of the depths, crying loudly, “Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?” which means, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”

I cannot bear to think of how dreadful that was for Him. He gave His life out of obedience to the Father who turned His back on Him because of the sin He bore for us. 

Father’s abandon wives and children, mother’s leave husbands and the babies they carried in their womb, bosses turn on employees that have sacrificed to help raise a company and friends may shun you, but this is the verse I told you I would share, it means everything to me: 

Romans 8:37-39 So, what do you think? With God on our side like this, how can we lose? The One who died for us, who was raised to life for us! is in the presence of God at this very moment sticking up for us. Do you think anyone is going to be able to drive a wedge between us and Christ’s love for us? There is no way! Not trouble, not hard times, not hatred, not hunger, not homelessness, not bullying threats, not backstabbing, not even the worst sins listed in Scripture. None of this fazes us because Jesus loves us. I’m absolutely convinced that nothing—nothing living or dead, angelic, or demonic, today or tomorrow, high or low, thinkable or unthinkable absolutely nothing can get between us and God’s love because of the way that Jesus our Master has embraced us.

Bottom line, we are not abandoned, we are loved…

2 Replies to “Separation anxiety you say?”

  1. Moving to Florida away from my girls & their families is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I miss them terribly, probably more than they miss me. I know God opened the doors for this move & my husband would not be alive today had we not moved here & found a doctor that spent enough time to actually find out what was wrong with him. I know God has a ministry for me here, but as yet I’m not sure what all that entails. I thank God that He was in the details of this move because we could have never juggled the short time line He set for us to pack up, sell our home, sell 3 rental houses, sell an old truck, buy an almost new truck, find movers at the last minute, & find a nice rental in an area where hurricane Michael had displaced so many. It is mind boggling. It is comforting to know that though I’m physically not able to see my immediate family within 30 minutes, I can still talk with them, FaceTime them & pray with for them just as I always did. Physical distance has no barriers when prayer is involved. My God is ever present and I praise him for it. Yes, the past year and a half has brought anxiety many times. Praise God that he has been faithful to see me through each hill & valley. I know you miss your old life, family, routines you were used to, etc. I do, too. Taking that leap of faith is not easy, but thank God he has not abandoned us.

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    1. The changes have been difficult and the speculations and people thinking we did something against … you know… and that is not, was not, never would be the truth. God knows. So we understand that people have been told to ignore, not visit or check on us, essentially banned from socializing with us and they, not knowing the whole truth of the situation have taken it a step further with their general gossip…. and it goes so far even into our personal lives, I heard the other day that someone told that Sergio had died… I said where in the world did that come from? HAHA People are so funny. He isn’t doing well but is actually better than he has been. God knows… God knows. I know you did what you needed to do and I am very happy for you. I love you. ❤


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