Are You Sad?

Photo 174Recently I was looking at a slide show on my computer of the most beautiful scenes I have ever seen when someone came into the room. I offered to share it with them but to my surprise this person folded their arms and said they didn’t enjoy looking at beautiful pictures. Thinking I had misunderstood I asked him to repeat what he had said, he obliged with hardly any expression. I just looked at him and I was trying to figure what to say next when he spoke again, “Actually, I am tired of life”. I replied “I’m sorry to hear you say that…” and while I was trying to think of some encouraging words to say to him I realized that I had experienced that same feeling several different times in my life.

One day this past week I was thinking about taking too much, too many chores, burdens, and other folks troubles, on our own two shoulders, and how tired and weary it can make us feel. It seems that feeling comes around when we feel hopeless about situations in our life, and have things we feel we have no control over.

Psalm 34:6 When I was desperate, I called out, and God got me out of a tight spot.

Psalm 86:1-7 Bend an ear, God; answer me. I’m one miserable wretch! Keep me safe—haven’t I lived a good life? Help your servant—I’m depending on you! You’re my God; have mercy on me. I count on you from morning to-night. Give your servant a happy life; I put myself in your hands! You’re well-known as good and forgiving, big hearted to all who ask for help. Pay attention, God, to my prayer; bend down and listen to my cry for help. Every time I’m in trouble I call on you, confident that you’ll answer.

The affirmation of Psalm 34 and the prayer of Psalm 86 were written by the Psalmist King, David. He was called a man after God’s own heart, and yet he felt desolate, alone and in trouble a lot of times. He did things that he knew weren’t right in the eyes of God and maybe his guilty conscience was bothering him, what ever it was, he certainly knew how to pray! If hope isn’t alive in our heart we soon say, as my friend did, “I am tired of life.” How sad because God gave us life as a precious gift and we get tired of it in much the same way a child opens a Christmas gift then puts it aside to see what else is under the tree. If you are healthy, if you have food in your pantry and clothes on your back then you are blessed by God.

I heard someone explain why he didn’t want to ask a certain person for a date. He said, “As long as I don’t ask, I have hope that if I did they would say ‘yes’, but if I asked and got turned down, then I would be crushed! I am happy to hope.” I gave that some thought, Proverbs 13:12 Unrelenting disappointment (or hope deferred) leaves you heartsick, but a sudden good break can turn life around.

One definition of the word, hope, is the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best. Hebrews 11:1 Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see. We let ourselves get so swamped by worry that it is hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel and then our physical body and mental capacities begin to fail us. “My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.” Proverbs 31:24 So be strong and courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord!

Don’t let Satan steal your joy of living, John 10:10 The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. Psalm 30:5 Weeping may endure for the night, but JOY comes in the morning! Don’t give up, don’t give in, your Hope and Joy are in Him! I ‘hope’ this helped you in some way!

6 Replies to “Are You Sad?”

  1. Very good please Lord give an abundance of hope and faith to all of my family loved ones and friends, amen.


  2. Nice approach to a touchy topic. I say touchy because it is a burden for a lot of people as you have pointed out in this one case. I am who I am because of what I chose to believe. Yes I get down trodden at times & question things in my life but my hope & faith is not based on things of this world. Mine is based on the One who died for me & loves me as I am. Facing the medical problems I have right now I could throw up both hands & go sit in the corner of do nothing & wait to die. Whether He heals me or not isn’t the issue because I refuse to give up the hope & belief that He will. I read the obits every day checking to see what friends have gone on home. Almost everyday I see where someone has died from COPD but I refuse as hard as I can to give in to it. I made up my mind to fight it till I take my last breath, Every time I encounter someone struggling with medical problems I try to encourage them in the faith to trust the Lord & not get down. Without hope & faith one is dead & just doesn’t know it yet. Barnabas was called “än encourager” and that is what I want to be known as. May people remember me as the man who refused to give in or quit. Thanks again for being willing to address those subjects that many people try to avoid in life. God is truly using you for His glory & honor. Thanks for being my friend.


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